Abana be ntibashaka uwo bagiye kubana
Umubyeyi w’abana babiri aragisha inama kuko abana yabyaranye n’umugabo wa mbere badashaka ko yongera gushaka undi mugabo.
Yagize ati : “ Ndi umubyeyi ufite abana babiri ariko papa wabo yitabye Imana nijye ubarera njyenyine. Ikibazo mfite nshaka ko mwangiraho inama nuko ubu numvaga igihe cyo kongera gushaka undi mugabo kigeze ariko abana bo ntibashaka uwo mugabo ngiye kubana nawe.
Muri make ikibazo cyanjye giteye gitya :
Abana banjye babiri b’abakobwa ndabakunda cyane. Papa wabo yabansigiye ari bato umwe afite imyaka ine undi afite umwaka umwe n’igice. Narabareze barakura ubu bose biga mu mashuri yisumbuye. Umukuru ageje imyaka 15 umuto afite 12.
Nakomeje kubaho njyenyine nkumva bingoye ariko mbanza kwihangana kuko nagombaga kwitonda mu guhitamo. Igihe cyarageze mbona uwo umutima wanjye wishimiye unyemerera kuzankundira abana nubwo we nta bandi bana yigeze abyara kandi twese turacyari bato. Umukunzi wanjye we afite imyaka 40 naho njyewe mfite 38.
Tumaze gutekereza ibyo kubana nabiganirije abana ngo numve icyo babitecyerezaho dore ko bamaze gukura.
Abana bose bahise bantera utwatsi, baranyamagana ngo nta mugabo wundi bakwemera ko abarera. Kuva nabibabwira barandakariye iyo ngeze mu rugo banga kumvigisha, ku buryo ubona ko bahise bagira ihungabana rikomeye.
Ubu rero ndikwibaza nkumva nabuze icyo nkora. Umusore twari tugiye kubana ndamukunda pe, numvaga agiye kunkiza agahinda kose nagize ko gupfakara nkiri muto nkaba indushyi. Ku rundi ruhande ariko na none abana banjye ndabakunda numva ntakora ikintu badashaka ngo mbabaze.
Nabasabaga ko mwangira Inama.
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Ariko jye ndumva ntabyumva kimwe na bagenzi banjye.Birumvikana bafite impungenge z’umugabo ugiye kwinjira mu buzima bwanyu ariko nta shingiro bafite. Ni ukwikunda (egoisme ) y’urubyaro. Warabareze n’ubwo batarakura ariko waravunitse kandi ntacyo bakuburanye witaye kuri buri besoin yabo. Kuki badashaka kumva wowe besoin zawe ? Non non. Ntabwo aribo bategeka ubuzima bwawe kuko ejo n’ejo bundi mu myaka 8 gusa baraba bo bagusize kandi ntuzabagarura kubera ko ari ubuzima bwabo yewe ntuzanababuza gukunda uwo bashaka ngo babikwemerere.
Ubuzima ni ubwawe decision ikwiye kuba iyawe, sacrifice wakoze yari ikenewe kandi warihanganye bihagije. Impamvu mumuha z’uko umugabo azamufatanya n’abana ndumva ariwe uzi umukunzi kuturusha ariko kandi kami ka muntu ni umutima we ntibivuga ko abagabo bose barwaye iyo ngeso.
Ganiriza abana bawe ubasobanurire imvune wahuye nazo mu buzima bwa wenyine n’umunezero uterwa no kubona uwo mufatanya urugendo. Uzabe ferme ntuzababwire nk’ubasaba uruhushya bamenyeshe ko wabitekerejeho ugasanga aribyo ushaka kandi ko utazareka kubakunda nk’umubyeyi. Bahe urugero rw’uko mu myaka mike buri wese azajya muri gahunda z’ubuzima bwe ugasigara wenyine kandi wakabaye ufite umugabo wikundiye mufatanyije ubuzima. Niba ukunda uwo mugabo nawe ukabona agukunda koko ntucike intege fata ubuzima bwawe mu ntoki.
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Lily ndagushimye uvuze neza.Wa mubyeyi we reka nkwibwirire njye ibi ndabizi neza izi nama urimo kugisha narazigishije bose bantera utwatsi njye ubwanjye namenye icyo ngomba gukora kuko bamwe muri aba ntabwo bazi gupfakara uri inkumi uburyo bimeze ndetse ntibatekereza nyuma yaho uko bizagenda yewe ntibazi n’umutwaro wo kwibana n’ibisitaza wikoreye k’umutima utagira uwubwira.ntibazi agaciro k’umugabo kuko ntibaramubura ngo bumve.Mwa ba damu mwe iyo umugabo mubanye nabi ushobora kuvuga uti arutwa no gupfa ariko iyo apfuye urumirwa.Rero niba utabizi nshuti abana barafuha bikomeye ntibashobora kwemera ko ushaka undi banezerewe ariko uko ni ukwikunda ntabwo abana basimbura umugabo na rimwe.
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abana bawe uzababwire ko uwo mugabo ataje gusimbura se kandi ko ari we umutima wawe wahisemo.
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uzababwire ko wabatoje kubaha kandi ko ubitezeho ko bazubaha uwo mugabo nkumugabo washatse kandi nkumuntu wese nkuko wabibatoje.
Ubundi mubyeyi wakoze ibyo benshi batari gushobora ahasigaye igihe kirageze ngo ubeho ubuzima bwawe. Ngo uryoherwe n’urukundo imibabaro ishire.
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Ndabaramukije,
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